http://www.collegeaftermath.com The Ultimate Life After College Survival Guide Wed, 25 Jan 2012 02:14:26 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://www.collegeaftermath.com/friends-relationships-after-college/long-distance-love/comment-page-1/#comment-11810 move in or move on? evolving relationships after college | last day of college Mon, 21 Nov 2011 03:45:44 +0000 http://www.new.collegeaftermath.com/?page_id=26#comment-11810 [...] Welcome to the real world where nine to fives won’t be your only adjustment.  You’re about to go through so many changes you can’t even predict who you’ll be once you’ve finally adjusted.    So while I can’t tell you with certainty whether moving in, moving on or long distance is the best choice for you, I can say I think you need an adjustment period to figure it out.  You need time to yourself to make decisions and make mistakes.  You just need…you.  And once you find whoever that is, you’ll be able to hold your own and know your limits in a partnership with someone else.  Who knows, maybe a break from your relationship will be the best thing to ever happen to it? [...] [...] Welcome to the real world where nine to fives won’t be your only adjustment.  You’re about to go through so many changes you can’t even predict who you’ll be once you’ve finally adjusted.    So while I can’t tell you with certainty whether moving in, moving on or long distance is the best choice for you, I can say I think you need an adjustment period to figure it out.  You need time to yourself to make decisions and make mistakes.  You just need…you.  And once you find whoever that is, you’ll be able to hold your own and know your limits in a partnership with someone else.  Who knows, maybe a break from your relationship will be the best thing to ever happen to it? [...]

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